I might ruffle some feathers with this post, but fuck it I gotta get this off of my chest. In no way do I condone abuse of any kind, rather it be mental or physical, no one deserves to be abused by anyone! However, if you find yourself going through the same dam thing day after day, month after month, or year after year its on you. If you have not applied any change or action to what needs attention in your life, then you just might like what you are getting, or you are very comfortable.
People come to me all of the time with their problems and I try to motivate them the best I can. Lately I have really been getting overloaded with issues from friends, and most of them have been going through the same thing for years. Most of their problems stems from relationships. Some of them I have cut ties with because they just want to load me up with garbage, and they need someone to co-sign the bullshit that they are doing. The older I get the more that I realize that some of my friends are just full of shit, and I mean that in the friendliest way possible.
There are some people who go through the same problems for years, and somehow its never ever their fault. You have the woman who gets her ass kicked by every man that she deals with. The dude is always sick and crazy, and shes sooooo sweet and goodie goodie right. You ask her why doesn't she leave, she says that she is scared, or that he might find her and kill her. You tell her that he might kill you anyway and she gives you another excuse. You ask her "how do you keep finding these guys", she says that "Men ain't Shit". The other excuse is that her father abused her so she is damaged, and then you realize that nothing you say help. My answer lately has been "maybe you like or need your ass kicked". These are the answers that you get from me when I'm tired of hearing foolishness! Blame Yourself!
You got the dude that can't find a good women to marry, but he can somehow find a good woman to fuck. God made a Kabillion women in the world and you can't find one good woman, you just keep meeting the whores of the world. Get the ENTIRE FUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHIT!. If you keep meeting whores then maybe just maybe you like or even love whores. "No woman wants a good man", no that's just the whores that you meet. "All of my ex girlfriends used me for my money", maybe you like giving your money away fool. I use to be this fool saying the same shit until I woke up and started taking responsibility in letting someone use or abuse me. Blame Yourself!!!
Lets Talk Finances!! Do you have that friend that has been struggling since they came out of their mama's womb? I mean they can't ever get their shit together! "There are no good jobs out there" they say, but its a WHOLE business ever 50 feet on ever street in America! There is a college or two in every city! There are staffing agencies on every side of town in every city but they cant get a job. Maybe they are blowing there money by living above their means. Maybe the chick is taking care of the bum that's beating her ass. Maybe the dude is spending his money on some gold digging ass whore. Blame Yourself!!
I'm not a cruel person and God knows I am so far from that, but we gotta keep it real with ourselves, most of the shit we go through are our own fault. No one can make you stay with an abusive person. No one can make a man stay with a woman who just wants his money. You can't blame the fact that you don't have any money on no one but yourself. I get tired of people pointing the finger an others and excusing themselves from there own problems. If you are obese its not your big bones, its that big ass piece of chicken that is in your greasy ass hands. Stop letting people fill your head up with a shit load of problems that they can fix. I'm done!! P.S. Purchase one of my shirts below so you can live this Golden Life with me!