I was on the facebook the other day reading a post about what's a Real Man, and what a Real Man is supposed to do. There were women saying that they would not date a man that does not do this and that and blah blah fucking blah!!!! Then here comes the men talking about what a Real Woman is and blah blah fucking blah!
Mind you that we live in a world where people are not getting married as much as they did in the days of old, and the people who are married are divorcing very fast. Trust me I know, I've been divorced twice in three years, and it's not a good feeling. One thing that I have noticed in my past relationships is that there were two many freaking rules. Hell I created many of them myself, and it was just to much, especially in my first marriage.
You can't stay out past 12pm, you shouldn't be on your phone too long, why are you talking to that dude on the phone, you shouldn't be talking to her, you shouldn't have lunch with him or her, blah blah fucking blah. I was a great provider, faithful, and a overall good husband, but I was also a drill sergeant. Now that I look back at it, I gotta admit that the shit was just not cool at all.
These rules are killing our relationships people! We are human beings that should be enjoying our lives and not worrying about stupid shit. If you have to place all of these freaking rules on your mate, then you might have some problems your dam self. Now I'm not saying that you should just let your mate go out there and screw other people (unless you are into that sort of thing), kick your ass, or harm you in any kind of way, but anything else is not that serious.
If someone loves you, is good to you, and treat you like you should be, let that other shit go. People are going to hang out sometimes, they are going to have friends of the opposite sex, and they are going to do stupid human shit from time to time. GET OVER IT! Do not lose a good person over some stupid ass rules. If your man wants to hang out late with the fellas sometimes, let him be a stupid man. If your woman wants to dress up and look good so that other men knows that shes the shit, so be it, shes coming home to you. Everyone is going to have flaws yall, don't forget that you are fucked up in your own ways too! Excuse my french in this post, sometimes I feel the need to stress certain things! Now I gotta go ask GOD for forgiveness. Yes I'm a sinner! PEACE!